Trying too hard

Sometimes, in trying to look for a something, we simply fail in trying. Sometimes, we try to hard, overlooking the essence of what we are seeking for, somehow losing sight of what we wanted to look for.

Perhaps the best way to find it, is not to look for it.

Fundamental Question No. 1: Given that opportunities(in any thing), float by you spread out in time, and that you obviously cannot possibly grab every single one, only allowed to pick one, when are you going to stop looking for the next one? Obviously you want to try maximise benefit to yourself. Can't tell?

Fundamental Question No. 2: Suppose you found your choice, then suddenly somewhere along, comes a better opportunity.. What are you going to do? Don't know?

Fundamental Question No. 3: What was the deciding factor that made you stopped looking for the next one? Not sure?

Fundamental Question No. 4: What about the case after all the effort you have spent, it was all for nothing? Nothing to say?